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November 15, 2006

The future of social networking

I've been reflecting on online social networking after reading this article. They tell us that young people are "more wired than ever - but they're also getting warier" of tech tools.

They report that more and more people prefer a face-to-face interaction to many of the popular social networking websites that have been getting so much press lately, i.e. Facebook or MySpace. Having just returned home from a wonderfully warm weekend out of town, I'd like to think that they are right, that the warmth of human interaction will prevail over the convenience of the keyboard. But I have a couple of bones to pick with this article...

1) Online social networking is getting younger every day. The article reports that 89% of students at a California public school have cell phones, and some 81% of them are on MySpace. That's huge! That means that if you're not using high speed internet at home you're probably considered somewhat outcast from the normal flow of high school. The reason I point this out is the article quotes several well-spoken graduate students, mid to late twenties, about how online networking sites just don't have as much apppeal for them anymore. I suspect they are outgrowing these sites, and more importantly that these sites are re-packaging and re-marketing themselves for a younger and younger crowd. We've seen it with teenie bopper movie marketing, no surprises here.

2) The more social networking sites there are, the less powerful they become individually. This is how social networking on the Web relates back to Getting Things Done. The more social networking sites you engage with, the more Inboxes you have. Sign up for another site = create another bucket that you'll have to collect, process and organize into a trusted system before you can effectively do and review the items. I think this is one of the least-talked-about dangers of lots of online resources that are popping up today. All of these new tools and sites are designed for convenience- convenient socializing in particular. But convenience gets left in the dust as we accumulate more tools, more gadgets, more sites, more inboxes. So perhaps the deeper issue this article taps into is that we are coming back into an Age of Consolidation. I'll be swapping my Palm and LG cellphone for a Treo soon to prove my commitment to minimalism.

Ok, bones picked. What I most liked about the article was this quote from a 19 year-old Florida student with a great insight about his own generation (hey, it's not easy to come up with objective criticism of your own kind). He reflects on how young people are now using text messaging to avoid uncomfortable social situations, like cancelling a date. "Text messaging has become the easy way out... Our generation needs to get over this fear of confrontation and rejection." Now we have even more options for breaking and/or renegotiating our agreements in an instant, less-human, less-emotional way. A good thing or a bad thing? You tell me...

Posted by Lisa at November 15, 2006 09:23 AM

Comments

Personally, I'm a big fan of anti-social networking. I connect a crossover cable from one ear to the other, and enjoy the sound of silence.

Posted by: Robert at November 15, 2006 09:58 AM

Interesting comment from the high school student about avoiding uncomfortable interactions by using text messaging. The news reported that Britney Spears informed her husband that she was filing for divorce, using text messaging.

Posted by: Chris at November 15, 2006 11:19 AM

Wow, Robin. Talk about a major avoidance of an uncomfortable social situation!

Posted by: Lisa at November 15, 2006 12:13 PM

I participate in a small group on the web, about 12 members. We post everyday. The youngest is 14 years old but very serious about the scientific topic. He told me he have more friends on line than in school. I don't think this is good. I also observed that in this very group people showed no interest to meet each other or at least to talk on phone or Skype , or exchange postcards in our first year anniversary. A few posts commenting about the group was enough for them.

Posted by: Silvia at November 15, 2006 08:31 PM

"Text messaging has become the easy way out...."

If face to face won't be pleasant, written words serve well. They used to be conveyed in a handwritten letter, now it could be email. We must only be polite and thoughtful.

Posted by: Sunil at November 20, 2006 12:09 AM

The Guardian (UK) newspaper articles/video referenced in this post may be of interest as may the book referenced in this post.

Posted by: Simon at December 1, 2006 04:07 AM

Thank you Simon! Great video for anyone who is interested in the future of the Web, etc.

Posted by: Lisa at December 6, 2006 11:31 AM

Let's see if I understand this article. And supply a productivity cure.

Several who've tried the latest in technology to connect with others are disappointed more than ever. They've spent so many hours on MySpace, Facebook, text messaging with so few quality relationships to show for it. And one of these is a 19-year old sophomore named Steve Miller?!



In other words Steve and his peers worry how their "time keeps on slippin', slippin', slippin' into the future."


Oh, there's a solution!



If he learns GTD, Steve Miller can "Fly Like an Eagle!"


Posted by: Glenn Mandelkern at March 10, 2007 10:40 AM