You're right - when you're at this point, a list is going to do it! I would suggest - if you can - taking some time for yourself (as many hours as you can) and step back to do some thinking about what isn't the way you'd like it to be in your life. I like to start there, and then state each "negative" as its opposite, which often leads to several A-HA!s about a new direction. From there you can break the idea down into projects and next actions, and then you're back at your lists with a fresh perspective.
Originally Posted by teatrubucuresti
On a separate note - I notice a reference to Bucuresti in your signature block. I actually spent 3 weeks in Romania in high school as part of a glee club program - we even did a concert at the end for Ceausescu! (That's how long ago it was...!) We toured around from the Black Sea resort of Neptun up to Iasi, and in between... I'll never forget it!