Thanks to all for your words of wisdom! I obviously need to take it easier on myself. I have moved a lot of things to Someday/Maybe which is already helping me separate the have-tos and the want-tos. And I am answering the hard questions about why I'm resisting some of the have-tos. I have an infinitely guilty conscience and frequently forget what weekends are for (crossing more things off my lists, right?!?) Anyway, thank you for your encouragement...it is exactly what I needed!