That's part of my problem too... the way ToDo implements its hiding feature, the "Due Date" works more like a "Forget this Until" date. I've run into serious confusion trying to have entries that worked both ways in my lists together.
The only alternative I've come up with (it's only partly relevant, but my new topic "Thinking 'Out loud' ... " says some of this) is to start trusting that when I put a calendar entry in at a project due date, and use an alarm for X days ahead to define when I should start to work on things, I can process that project then, decide the appropriate NAs, and ToDo OR DateBook them as necessary.
I'm trying to let go of the need to have the Outcome entry text and the NA texts visible together all the time - I need to learn to review things better, and know that my mind is capable of making the connections whenever I see the Project come up as a reminder.
If that didn't make sense (as I often don't when I'm composing thoughts and typing concurrently), I'll try to clarify as desired. :)