Actually, I'm a fan of the flylady and learned a lot from her systems. I don't subscribe anymore because I've figured out what routines work best for me, and they don't necessarily correlate with what she does. I especially like the "use it and love it" rule for decluttering, and keeping down the clutter is essential of having a clutter-free mind as well. I agree - the flylady is great and can really help you get on top of things. .